Expectations

Believe firmly that change* may be part of God’s plan for us. 

If so, what you are headed into, will give you joy and satisfaction beyond your Expectations.

*Change: The things that do not happen according to our desire.

Reaction

We are busy to make our lives successful at any cost, while we see nobody and forget our past at the turnings of our lives who expect our little helping hand.

When we accomplish our target, we will be surprised to see that whom we did not see and forgot at the turnings of our lives; our parents, brothers and sisters, relatives and friends, needy and our well-wishers are there who reached before us to receive us with great joy.

What would be our Reaction..?

Every win…

Every win admittedly offers the promise of satisfaction after accomplishment,

 and we do need that in our lives. 

And it also fulfills our heart’s desire when we do what we love…

Sometimes I feel that I win everywhere..!

Sometimes I fell only I win everywhere..!

I am so glad to win everywhere..!

Because I love God...He makes me to win everywhere..!

Other

No one is devoid of desires and dreams.

The goals may be material or spiritual or both.

An average person seeks the material goals

And the spiritual seeker looks for manifesting God

Through the practice of spirituality, the prayer.

The material goal gives pleasure not meaning.

The goals which make a person a satisfied...

They are the true goals... one must seek..!

All seem to be seeking fulfilling of their dreams

In one way or the Other…

Fullness

Hope, proper perception of self-worth

And moral strength affirm one to have will-to-love

Which shows the path to reach sound conclusions

And enables one to reconcile contradictions in perception

By which one easily finds way to overcome difficulties,

Like loneliness and humiliation and consequently gains a unified mind

The path to peace and acceptance and happiness and Fullness…

Oneself

To know people, walk beside them.

To learn people, be with them.

To lead people, know and learn them.

To know oneself, walk along with them.

To learn oneself, be with people.

To lead oneself, know and learn Oneself

Jesus

I confess…

I have no sensible approach to the new challenges

Which are coming on the way of my life

Sometimes…

I feel encouraged to do everything with great joy…

Other times…

I feel exhausted due to lack of faith in Jesus…

Death

It’s a reality, when someone dies,

We don’t feel that; death is at hand.

But when death embraces someone, whom we love,

Then we realize that death is a reality

And it is at hand it also reminds us that our lives too impermanent.

Therefore, within the short span of our earthly existence give

A unique message to the world

Which may enhance few to live more comfortably…

It’s the message of Death..!

Facade

We must learn to look behind the facades of our lives. When we see facade of our lives, it is like clear blue sky, but when we look behind the facade, it is like the clear sky which has so much dust and dark clouds behind it, it appears to be calm and clear blue sky. It is through learning to look behind the facades of our own lives we start to understand about our lives.

Life is beautiful

When one consciously invests

His or her mental, spiritual and psychic energies

In building the relationship,

The life become more and more comfortable

As well as beautiful…          

Secret of self-growth

Try not deliberately deciding to avoid people

Because by avoiding people around you,

You are allowing yourself to grow in a kind of secret hostility

Which will cause only harm than good..!

The moment we are able to know that we are living a kind of secret 

hostility, find someone to share the feelings in order to get rid of it..!

Otherwise it is going to be a disaster to the person itself as well as to the 

society the person lives..!

Choice

Normally a person makes choices on a given occasion…

Due to his or her basic nature that has been shaped by

His or her respective circumstances and upbringing…

But, if a person unconditioned oneself,

The person will respond freely to the given occasion.

The person may be a failure in the eyes of the society…

But for the person the choice is right and action is done freely…

Sometimes we too feel to be free to act…

But our society has its own norms as per one is obliged to live..!

Here the freedom of choice is no place;

Rather act according to the choice of the society…

Even in the name God certain actions are forbidden..!

I seriously doubt that God would interfere our freedom of choice

To think and act…

Our inability to accept bitter experiences

May have negative impact in our day today interactions…

But the one who has intimate relationship with someone will not easily

Prey to the negative impact of the bitter Experiences...

Thus, I would say make it a point that everyone must try to have an intimate

relation which will certainly help to overcome the negative impact by the intimate

 relation..!

Act as selfish

I strive to act without selfish motivation…

            But when the results roll in,

            I’m arrogant of my Success…

I can say, I may fail to see relationships

I may even forget what I am

I forget my very being as a human…

Success is always opium for me…!

My Little Prayers

I can declare conclusively that I felt very emotionally damaged

And physically exhausted when my sincerity was doubted…

But as a beginner,

I pressurized myself to go ahead with my little Prayers…

As a theist, I would rather depend on prayers…

But as a human being, I sometimes depend on my own convictions…

Life at initial

Every creature in the universe is born without asking to be born.

So, initial starting conditions have tremendous impact

In each one’s Life…

Sometimes the initial conditions may either be positive…

Or be negative…

On both conditions some may able to cop up…

They are the winners of their own later they win others too..!

Love as choice

Love is not an emotion but a choice…

A way of being…

That involves seeing ourselves and others with kindness and compassion.

That love creates opportunities to follow our bliss,

Heal wounds in ourselves and others, and

To find peace despite challenges and Hardships…

But one tends to believe that love is emotion…

Before loving something or someone,

One makes choice…

It may involve kindness and compassion towards person;

Attraction towards things…

Wrong

            I firmly believe that, everyone is bound

To do something wrong at one time or the other…

            But the moment we understand that we have done something wrong

And try to correct it…

We find a meaning in that wrong…

That means we learned something out of that Wrong…

There may arise a question...

Does it mean that a wrong is a necessary for each one's life..?

I say, it is indeed needed..!

Sincerity

I was shocked and shattered when the other doubted about my sincerity..!
I tried my level best to convince the person.
It seemed that the person wanted a good rapport from the authority..!
I became the scapegoat for no reason..!
Then I decided to retaliate the person...
But for a while, I thought, revenge is not my cup of tea...
I tried to forget and forgive...at some extant I could succeed.
Sincerely saying,
Still I have the feeling to retaliate one day...
Sometimes I feel to get rid of these unnecessary emotions...but I fail..!

Nostalgia

Childhood memories always bring nostalgia...
School days too bring nostalgia...
College days too do the same...
Now at this moment of life..we feel to get those moments back...!!!
This reminds us that we had very beautiful childhood, wonderful school days and marvelous college days...

Stagnant

Life seems to be stagnant today..!
The reason I could found is very strange..!
When a person is unable to think positively... and creatively, life becomes a stagnant..!
Why is it  and how is it possible in one's life..?
The reason can be,
First answer is...the person feels uncomfortable physically.
Second reason can be... the person feels there is nothing to do in life, so to say fails to find a better way to occupy oneself.
Third reason can be... the person feels pessimistic..(two reasons.  i) No attractive thoughts that could bring an enthusiasm in her/his life   ii) No attempts succeeded to achieve desired goal)...
Sorry to say... that the inability to find a remedy for this..!

Hope

I was so much depressed for a while...
I could exactly remember what was the reason how I became victim of this great silent killer..!
I was trying to correct someone who really needed help to realize the mistake that he has done was noticed by others..!
I tried to correct him but everything went in vain!
On the contrary, I became the culprit of that particular incident..!
I was left alone, many were scolding me..even my friend..!
It made made me to feel isolated and being left..!
Then comes so many thoughts...even death I thought of..!
Then I got a chance to go to a hill station just after monsoon...
Once up on a time this same hill valley was dry land...not even a small grass I could see...
But now, I saw it was awesome scene..!
Beautiful meadow with small flowers of various kinds...
It brought me hope...
It brought me life back...
There itself I recognized if we are able to see and experience the nature it will bring life as well as hope...
Coming back to the nature...
Means...
Coming back to hope...!

Leader Vs Destroyer

On this beautiful earth human is given leadership quality and freedom of choice by God..!
As a human, I practice leadership in different levels...as an animator of a small group of youth.
I could inspire them telling that they have a lot of good qualities being human..!
Still I found few with short tempered, stubborn, and arrogant..!
I am still trying to convince them that these qualities are leading one into wrong and amiss..!
I tell them that they are the future leaders of this world...
I also add that those who are short tempered, stubborn and arrogant will certainly fail to see from other's shoe...
They may fail to understand the situation of the other.
Later these qualities make them not a good leader but a destroyer...!
Choice is ours...To be a good leader or to be a destroyer..!

Johna Water Fall, Ranchi, Jharkhand.