Leader Vs Destroyer

On this beautiful earth human is given leadership quality and freedom of choice by God..!
As a human, I practice leadership in different levels...as an animator of a small group of youth.
I could inspire them telling that they have a lot of good qualities being human..!
Still I found few with short tempered, stubborn, and arrogant..!
I am still trying to convince them that these qualities are leading one into wrong and amiss..!
I tell them that they are the future leaders of this world...
I also add that those who are short tempered, stubborn and arrogant will certainly fail to see from other's shoe...
They may fail to understand the situation of the other.
Later these qualities make them not a good leader but a destroyer...!
Choice is ours...To be a good leader or to be a destroyer..!